So. Libertarian Boyfriend and I were hanging out at his place last night, reading this self-defense blog from this dude he knows. And in the blog, he mentions something about yelling at attackers (I don’t remember, something about yelling). I looked at him and asked “dude, is that why people don’t fuck with me? I [...]

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MY WORLDS ARE GOING TO COLLIDE TODAY. I AM NOT SUPER PUMPED FOR THIS. Unless by “super pumped,” you mean “super nervous.” The two libertarians in my life are going to cream their panties over recycling being a waste of tax dollars and ripping on me. I would put a frowny faced emoticon in there, [...]

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SDC turned 30 yesterday and it’s just so strange. With all the shit we’ve gone through, I’m not so sure we thought we’d ever see him hit 3-0.  When you spent a good portion of high school worrying about where your boyfriend was sleeping (due to frequently getting kicked out of his home), or just [...]

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Found an apartment in South Philly near the subway. All I will disclose publicly is that it is between Oregon and Snyder on the east side of Broad. The place is gorgeous but a little pricey. It’s way bigger and nicer than what I could find in CC for the same price, but still on [...]

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Now that I’ve had a week or so to step back and look at things a little differently, I feel badly for you. I re-read your myspace and facebook profiles, and all I can do is hold back from crying, because you and I both know it’s all a bunch of bullshit. You can talk [...]

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If a partner told you they wouldn’t kick you out because they “just couldn’t kick someone out,” what would that mean to you? To me, it says “I’m not too happy about us, but I’m too much of a wimp to end things.” It comes across to me as an acknowledgment that this relationship is [...]

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